This is the year we made the transition to Hanukkah. Previously, because my home is multi-denominational, we celebrated both. When my daughter was born, my son was in highschool and we celebrated Christmas, so Hannah grew up with a tree and Santa and 2 holidays. Lucky for her, a little rough on the parents.
Well, this year she older and Santa is for littler kids (so she says...frankly I don't get it, I'm 50 and adore Santa). But, since she has opted out, we have transitioned to a single holiday household. Now for those who wonder, it's a mediocre transition, but it boils down to this. We are doing all 8 nights of Hanukkah, and we are having a Hanukkah party on Friday. However, we do have a tree and decorations throughout for both holidays. We still have a Christmas eve party every year, which is our family tradition that includes lasagna this year and stromboli and cream puffs and karaoke.
The real change is going to be Christmas day. We are not getting up early to unwrap presents cause there won't be any this year under the tree, they will be done that evening when we light the candles for Hanukkah instead. We always had a kick back jammies day on Christmas anyway, cause my son used to see dad in the afternoon, so mom chilled with Chinese food and a movie, and the tradition will continue. We have monkey bread for breakfast, a movie and leftovers or Chinese for dinner planned. I'm actually looking forward to it. I think we are seeing Muppets or Hugo, either are supposed to be great.
I like transitioning traditions. I'm sure soon the Christmas eve party will move to my daughter in laws house and they will take over where we leave off. They will add to it, change it and make it there own, while carrying on things they loved from my tradition. It is how families carry on and share. I love that about the holidays. Sharing, melding, mixing, creating memories, traditions, and love. What could be better. Oh, I know, it's sprinkled with cookies, chocolates and latkes!!
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